
Sam Petri
A pamphlet from the SAFE Bar Network during one of their bystander training sessions at London Underground in Downtown Ames on Jan. 30, 2024.
Ames will become the most dense SAFE Bar Network-certified city in the country after all the training sessions conclude, according to Darian Everding, a business development representative for the SAFE Bar Network. They held one of 13 Ames bystander trainings planned in January and February at London Underground on Tuesday.
The training covered definitions of words like consent, addressed things to notice and taught ways to interrupt and support. Everding said going through the training allows bartenders to “call back more quickly” the skills learned.
“There are a lot of potential sources of trauma for service industry staff. Ways that you can prevent trauma is by training your nervous system to respond during stressful situations with training that you have so that you can flow through that situation and not destroy yourself to bring this up,” Everding said.
During the training, the executive for the SAFE Bar Network Haleigh Harrold said that it is meant to be a “continuation of a conversation you’ve already started.”
“For a long time, we talked about active bystander skills as though there’s some kind of superpower. That’s bullshit; none of that’s true,” Harrold said. “You guys are already so good at active bystander skills, you call it customer service, and so we’re just gonna build on those skills you already have.”
Everding also said the bar is a place for all people to have a good time because it is cheaper to buy alcohol at the store and drink it at home.
“We’re holding a sacred responsibility to create a place where people are willing to pay that premium to be here,” Everding said. “We sling poison; that is part of it. We understand that it is a controlled substance that so many people enjoy with respect and some don’t have the ability to engage respectfully.”
Adam Baldus, a London Underground bartender of over a decade, said this training is better than the state-run Iowa Program for Alcohol Compliance Training (I-PACT) and hopes more people complete it.
“[The I-PACT training] is kind of like, second-grade classroom style. ‘A person walks into a bar and causes a problem. What do you do?’ And you’re like this is sort of helpful but not really,” Baldus said.
The 13 Ames bars participating in the SAFE Bar Training Network are:
The Mucky Duck Pub
Welch Ave. Station
The Blue Owl Bar
AJ’s Ultra Lounge
BNC Field House
Mickey’s Irish Pub
Thumbs
Mother’s Pub
Time Out
Café Beaudelaire
London Underground
Inside Golf and Games
Macubana
Everding said each bar’s training certificate lasts one year and any additional bars interested in participating can email darian@safebarnetwork.org or call 515-493-2343.