Students spend their weekends relaxing, partying, studying and traveling to see football games or family. We all enjoy those two days off, and every week we make plans while we count down the days. All kinds of books, songs and movies tell stories about the wonderful adventures that happen on Saturdays and Sundays. Many of you probably sing along to “Working for the Weekend” by Loverboy. Not many would consider spending a weekend going to meetings, listening to speakers and mingling with hundreds of smiling people wearing name tags.

It’s not ideal, but the benefits that come from smiling, shaking hands and taking notes are worth it in the long run. Attending conferences and public functions while in college can help make connections, as well as friends, that may last a lifetime.

I attended a conference this weekend in Minneapolis, Minn., and had the opportunity to hear from Congressman Thaddeus McCotter from Michigan; Reince Priebus, who is the RNC Chairman; Michael Reagan; Wisconsin Governor Scott Walker; and Karl Rove. All the speakers shared personal stories about family, college, friendships and the opportunities that came around that helped shape who they are today.

Michael Reagan spoke to us about his memories of his father, President Ronald Reagan, including when he tried to get a bigger allowance from his father, only to receive a response about the economic issues their country faced and how he should be lucky he had that dollar. Sharing that memory made us all remember having similar discussions with our own parents, when we would try to negotiate getting a little more of an allowance.

Karl Rove, who served as the senior advisor and deputy chief of staff to former-President George W. Bush, mentioned how some of the close friends he has today are people he met while involved in College Republicans on campus. It is true that in college we begin to learn more about who we are, what we want in life and who our friends are. Having an activity or an interest in common definitely helps us develop stronger bonds. By attending events, and participating, mingling and having fun, the group can learn more about themselves and the world.

The world is a scary place sometimes, I know we all currently worry about paying for college, wondering if there will even be a job available after college. We second guess ourselves all the time, questioning our major or if studying will pay off in the end.

It’s important not to miss out on any opportunity that comes your way. Take a weekend off of doing the typical, predictable thing and further your potential career. Pursue an interest of yours by going to an event where there are speakers or like minded individuals. I have attended many events, including fairs, dinners and fundraisers. My wallet is now bursting with business cards, not to mention beverage punch cards.

Those business cards have become a phenomenal asset. By visiting with people and collecting business cards you may be able to acquire an internship or a job. If not, they can usually help you get in touch with the right person. Who knows, that person they connect you with might be an old friend they graduated with.

You never know where you will go in life, so acquiring contacts who can further your career, and your interests, can never hurt.