LETTER: Traditional marriage legal, not religious, give it to all equally
January 29, 2009
I was reading David Riegner’s letter, and while I agree with his conclusion that the LGBT community’s rights are being violated, I disagree with his referring to marriage as a religious institution.
Marriage was originally more of a business arrangement or treaty between two families or groups. Religion did not become involved until later — most likely because clergy were the literate people in the Middle Ages, so when unions were made, they wrote down the details.
Over time traditions were developed and religion became very much a part of most marriage ceremonies. That does not make marriage in and of itself a religious matter.
If marriage were solely a religious institution there would be no marriage licenses, and no one would be married in a courthouse by a judge. Marriage is now — as it has always been — a legal contract binding two people together.
Today it is less about linking families together for business matters, but marriage is still a legal matter. People may incorporate their religious traditions, but they may choose not to. Therefore, to me, the issue of gay marriage should not be based on religious beliefs.
Separation of church and state is only relevant in cases where clergy refuse to officiate a gay marriage based on their beliefs.
Although I may not agree with them, they have the right to refuse based on their beliefs. If the government were to try to force them to do so, that would be a violation of their rights and should not be permitted.
I believe that marriage is a government issue that should not be influenced by the religious beliefs of people who will not have their rights violated legislation that would allow the LGBT community to have the same rights that heterosexuals have.
I definitely agree with Riegner and his prediction that in 40 years, people will look back on this time and have trouble comprehending why homosexuals were not allowed to marry.
I look forward to the day when it will not be “gay marriage,” but just marriage.
-Karen Kerr is a graduate student in food science and human nutrition.