Students anticipate return of soldiers
April 23, 2003
Editor’s Note: This is part of an ongoing series about how Iowa State has been impacted by the conflict in Iraq.
Two ISU students in the 3rd Corps Support Command in Kuwait have told their families they eagerly anticipate another care package from home.
“It’s all they look forward to in their day,” said Nicole Frank, senior in advertising.
Adam Graaf and Dave Lindley left for Kuwait from Germany on March 3, Frank said.
Frank, Graaf’s girlfriend, said she wasn’t surprised by his move.
“I had been waiting to hear it,” she said. “It wasn’t as surprising, but it made everything a hundred times harder knowing he’s going to be in the middle of everything.”
Lindley’s girlfriend, Angela Gordon, senior in graphic design, said she has tried not to watch the news in an effort not to be totally overwhelmed.
But Frank said she stays glued to CNN and is thankful the press is embedded with the troops.
“Knowing what’s happening every minute of the day [has helped],” she said.
When the conflict in Iraq started, fears for both men increased.
Graaf’s parents, who live in Johnston, said it added to their worries for their son.
“The war added a new dimension because of an increased concern about security and safety,” Lori Graaf said.
Technology has made coping with having a loved one overseas easier for those involved, they said.
“[Adam] e-mails me quite a bit, [about] once a day,” Frank said. “It’s nice to know he’s always safe and it’s fun to hear some of his stories. He was really excited he saw camels the other day.”
Graaf’s parents said they have communicated with their son on an ongoing basis.
“Like any parent that has a soldier, we e-mail him daily and send letters frequently,” Lori Graaf said.
Gordon said the mail has been frustrating for her at times.
“For awhile I was writing him every day, but they haven’t been getting to him, so I’ve been slowing down,” Gordon said.
Graaf’s family members said their Christian faith has helped them remain hopeful.
Gordon also said her faith is remaining important.
“Our faith is keeping us going,” she said. “It’s all we have.”
Graaf’s mother said she appreciates the support her family has received.
“I know a number of people are praying for Adam,” she said.
The rising heat in Kuwait is a big worry for both women.
“A couple of days ago it was 107 degrees,” Frank said.
Gordon agreed. “I know it’s been getting a lot hotter,” she said. “The heat’s getting to him.”
Despite worries, both women are trying to continue with their lives as graduation draws nearer.
“There’s some uncertainty now because I’m graduating and I don’t know when he’s coming back,” Frank said.
Gordon expressed the same concerns. “It’s hard he has to miss out on my last semester of school,” Gordon said. “You want him to come back and you really have no idea when it’s [going to happen].”