Losing a home away from home
October 16, 1996
To Tim Davis:
You do not know me, but I have read your articles for more than a year and have been impressed with (if not agreed with) all of them.
This summer I lived in the Theta Chi house, in the room known as the “crow’s nest.” That room no longer exists. I was brought abruptly, almost violently, to that realization on Monday as I strolled past the house for the first time since the fire.
While I only lived there for three months, that little room meant a lot to me. I was no longer welcome at my home in Minneapolis, and I didn’t have any friends close enough to Ames that I could stay with.
Theta Chi gave me a place to sleep, eat, and occasionally drinkā¦along with a glimpse of the Greek system that I had spent my freshman year growing increasingly hostile to.
Although I am an “out” lesbian, I did not experience the discrimination or the prejudice which I was anticipating. That room was my home.
While I did not lose any belongings in the fire, I still experienced a small piece of the sadness.
My heart goes out to the men of Theta Chi who lost their homes, their belongings and their memories in those flames. I cannot even begin to imagine.
Cass Topinka
Sophomore
Liberal Arts and Sciences